Why we use cloth

This Saturday is the Great Cloth Diaper Change.  We are participating (with our local cloth diaper circle) in the attempt to break the world record for the amount of cloth diapers changed at one time.  This event is a great opportunity to spread the word about the benefits of cloth diapering.  As a part of GCDC, we are entering a video contest in which we answer the question "Why do you use cloth diapers?"  That question got me thinking, as cloth diapers are such a given in our family.  I probably need good answers since I will be volunteering at the event.     

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Environmental Impact

I asked my husband why we use cloth diapers.  His response was twofold.  First and foremost, because his wife wants to (I am a lucky woman!) and secondly because of the environmental impact.

There are lots of stats showing the environmental impact of using disposable diapers.  What it really boils down to is anything you throw away ends up in landfills.  Trash does not magically disappear.  Bottom line: disposable diapers spend hundreds, possibly thousands, of years in landfills.  That is a reason enough for me to avoid them.  Factor in what it takes to manufacture them, and I cannot be blissfully ignorant about the negative environmental impact. As with many environmental issues, I find people think their actions aren't large enough to make a difference.  I fundamentally disagree.  Every family's actions and contributions (good or bad) matter.  

The Real Diaper Association keeps great statistics on the environmental impact and I encourage you to read the facts.  Small Footprint Family has a well researched article on both environmental and health dangers of disposable diapers.

 

Health

Every angle of using cloth diapers can be argued from each side.  Disposable diapers are big business, and those who stand to gain from selling and manufacturing them will spin everything.  The health issue has been studied from both sides.  I tend to believe that studies can easily be swayed.    

Bottom line: there are chemicals in disposable diapers. Lots of them.  I do not trust chemicals and I do not want these chemicals next to by daughter's lady parts.

The Livestrong Foundation has a great article on the ins and outs of these chemicals here.

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Teamwork

I have been blessed with a husband who does the diaper laundry.  Diapering is a team effort. My husband has made the diaper laundry a part of his daily routine and we end up communicating about diapers a lot.  Our cloth diapers add to our team dynamic

I also have a wonderful Diaper Circle support group.  The motto of The Lehigh Valley Diaper Circle is "Saving the world one cloth diaper at a time."  The sense of community really helps with diapering and motherhood.  

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Fun

I really do have fun with her diapers.  She wears her cow print diaper when we go to a farm and I coordinate colors when she wears dresses.  Obviously the fun factor isn't our main reason, but I find it fun.


Money

The general consensus is that disposable diapers cost $2000 from birth to potty training and that cloth diapers cost as little as $500.  I haven't added up how much I spent on cloth diapers.  We lucked out with gifts and hand-me-downs.  My husband point outs that we do spend more in water, but it isn't a lot because we have an energy efficient washing machine.  I do believe we save money, especially in factoring that my diaper stash can be used for another child.


While cloth diapers hanging on the clothesline was a normal sight for my grandmother, I'm pretty sure she would find the fun colors frivolous.

While cloth diapers hanging on the clothesline was a normal sight for my grandmother, I'm pretty sure she would find the fun colors frivolous.

Tradition

Cloth is how our grandparents diapered. I tend to follow a philosophy that modern conveniences aren't always good. When it comes to food, if I think a food would be unrecognizable to my great grandmother, I try to avoid it (think: super processed foods.) There is just something about keeping life simple and back to basics that makes me feel in tune with tradition. There are theories on why so many health problems are new to this generation (pretty sure my great grandmother didn't know what asthma or peanut allergies were) but these are just theories.  I simple like to do things old school.


Diaper Rash and Potty Training

We haven't had problems with diaper rash.  I like to think this is because of the cloth diapers, but diaper rash can have many causes.  I do think the theory that cloth diapers make potty training easier (because it is easier for children to feel wetness and understand when they have to go) sounds reasonable.  Since I have no potty training experience, I cannot attest to the results.

So we are a cloth diapering family.  Instead of focusing on the extra effort cloth takes, I choose to focus on the above reasons.  Please help spread the word about the benefits of cloth!  If you read this far, thanks for enduring my longest blog post yet!




Toddler?

When is a baby no longer a baby?

Gardening with my toddler.

Gardening with my toddler.

I think it is time for me to start calling my baby a toddler. 

At our weekly play date, she is no longer the baby. I follow her around making sure she doesn't poke out a baby's eyes. She is the kid eating puffs off the floor. A mere 3 or so months ago I shockingly watched kids eat off the floor at play date. Those months feel like years, but they also went by quickly.

She started throwing fits when I change her diaper. Yesterday I added an extra insert so I could extend the amount if time between changes and avoid another fit.  She isn't walking yet, but is "toddling" around.

I think I was waiting for her first birthday to acknowledge the end of her baby phase. Since that day is next month, I suppose I need to start accepting this. 

Of course this does not change anything. However, it does add to the (internal) pressure of finishing a baby book and the nursery. 

The strange thing is I am not sad to say goodbye to the baby stage. I feel like there is some unwritten rule that mothers are supposed to be sad about their babies growing up.

I am excited.

Excited to watch her grow and see her little personality forming. Excited for all the new fun things she can experience. I tend to get hung up in the way I am "supposed" to feel or things I am supposed to do. Really the only thing I am supposed to do is love her. I think I have that part figured out.

 

 

Fascinating butterflies

I recently fashioned this fascinator as an Easter hat for a dear friend.

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I had a bit of a mental mistake when designing this piece. I designed it to be worn on the left side of ones head. Fascinators are typically worn on the right side of one's head. This has to do with wearing them on the opposite side from the arm of your escort, and being escorted with a man on the left has to do with men carrying swords one their left leg. Complicated, right?

Since I am fairly certain my friend Jalyn will not be escorted by a man carrying a sword on Easter Sunday, I figured it would be fine. 

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Of course, all headpieces tend to change when tried on by the wearer, as all heads are shaped differently. Turns out this piece really sat well on the right side of Jalyn's head and we simply turned it around showing the purple flower. It will take some butterfly tweaking, but I think it is fun.

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She wanted something to distract from her pregnant belly. I tried to design it bringing the eyes upwards. I am looking forward to seeing pictures of her wearing the fascinator. Jalyn is keen on Easter hat wearing, which is a little quirk about her that makes me love her even more as a friend.

Happy Easter, friends!